When we start in the world sugarbabe and sugardaddy we usually have very clear things, we know perfectly what we want and what are the red lines that we will not cross.
But over time we can open up to new options and find things we never imagined we could find. In this post I want to return to some things that we should talk about in a relationship with a sugardaddy or a sugar baby before jumping into the pool and end up confused.
Does your relationship contemplate sex?
We have repeated it several times, but it is that sex usually becomes one of the main conversations that must be had before or during the first date. You should be clear that you are not an Escort, you do not charge in exchange for sex, much less charge per hour of sex. Both Sugar Baby and Sugardaddy should reach a consensus in terms of their sexual ties. You must be clear that sex is not mandatory and if you accept it it must be willingly. A Sugar Baby should never feel compelled to have sex and that should be clarified with your future sugar daddy.
Before dating young girls or mature men, they should know what they expect from each other on the sexual issue.
Will you do sexting?
Some mature men love to play with their sugarbabys over the phone, stay in touch or distance relationships. If you like this you should ask your SB or if you are sugarbabe ask your SD if there will be sexting. If, for whatever reason, your SB cannot do it, you must respect it and not press, you have to take into account that many girls in Spain live in shared apartments or with their parents. That is why privacy and respect for your sugarbaby should be paramount. Likewise, if you are SB and your sugardaddy in USA asks for discretion you must follow the rules and put yourself in his place.
Will the sugar daddy pay in cash or with gifts?
You must be clear about your goals before having an appointment with a mature man. Do you want your SD to take you on a trip? Maybe you prefer to help you with college? Would you like a mix of everything a little? Well this is crucial because wearing a sugar babe style with a wealthy mature man is a beautiful thing, but perhaps, he prefers to give you gifts and trips instead of money, or vice versa, he may prefer to give you a monthly or weekly allowance. Ask them what your needs are and your objective in the relationship so that later there are no misunderstandings.
How often and how will you give a gift or financial aid?
What defines a Sugar Daddy? Your generosity And the more often I express it, the better for a sugarbabe. When you talk to an SD, ask him how many times he wants to stay, how he will thank you for his time with him and at what time and how he will do it. Likewise, as a sugardaddy, when you are going to have an appointment with a young woman, do not hesitate to always have a detail, even if there is an assignment in between. Making your sugarbabe happy will bring you good times.
What kind of relationship are you looking for?
A sugardaddy can look for a boyfriend-like relationship, a more open relationship or may even be looking for a young and nice girl to get married. Similarly, sugarbabys can seek a marriage with a mature man or just have fun. Before there is a misunderstanding it is better to make clear what you are looking for, if you want a very long-term relationship or a fun relationship more based on friendship than something more serious you should clarify. It is crucial that we know how we want to spend time with our partner SD or SB. Is it more a romantic relationship? Maybe one more relationship going out for a drink? Well this is important to speak …
Will the Sugar Baby receive additional support?
There are many supports that your sugardaddy can offer you, for example, pay you for the gym, a beauty treatment or a spa. If you are looking for something like that, tell him, ask him what you like to do and you can’t and he will pay for it.
Is there room to fall in love?
Very related to point 8 this point sometimes seems to be overlooked, but to avoid having a bad drink it is good to clarify it. Are you open or open to love? And it is that sometimes in this type of relationship one of the two falls in love and if the other person from the beginning is closed to fall in love the inconveniences come. So do not hesitate to clarify this point, although it is already known that love is often not controlled, you can also have a predisposition or not towards it. If you are looking for love with a mature man or if you are looking for love with a young girl, do not be afraid to say so.
What will privacy be like between you?
Sugardaddys often have wives and reputations that in no way can be tarnished. If so, a sugardaddy must understand and know how to behave. Likewise, as a sugardaddy you must understand in the same way that a sugarbaby has a personal life and may not be comfortable in having a relationship with many calls or interferences. Talking about whether you need total privacy and what is your situation in this regard will help you not to have unpleasant surprises from friends or wives.
When you date young girls you must be discreet.
Are they both open for other relationships?
Some sugardadys can be possessive and if they find out that their sugarbaby is with another person they can cut ties and maybe that is not the best thing that can happen to you. That is why it is important to clarify before the beginning of the relationship if you are in other relationships or if you are open to other relationships or not. Also if you are a single sugardaddy you should clarify this point since if your sugarbaby becomes fond of it it can hurt her to learn that you are in other relationships. So it is better to fix everything at the beginning of the relationship.
In what cases will your sugar ratio end?
That is the last crucial question that Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby should ask each other. Would the end of the relationship be a lie? What are the lines that would make you leave the relationship? Maybe you would leave the relationship if you start falling in love?
Be clear with what you want and enjoy your appointments!